ARE YOU A VICTIM OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE?

Understanding domestic violence and abuse

Domestic violence and abuse can happen to anyone. It occurs within all age regardless of size, gender, or strength ranges, ethnic backgrounds, raize, and economic levels. And while women are more commonly victimized, men are also abused—especially verbally and emotionally, although sometimes even physically as wellsocial position, or strength, This is especially true when the abuse is psychological, rather than physical. Emotional abuse is often minimized, yet it can leave deep consecuencies.

According to a U.S. Justice Department study, two-thirds of violent attacks against women are committed by someone the woman knows. Approximately 1,500 women are killed each year by husbands or boyfriends.

If you recognize yourself or someone you know in the following warning signs and descriptions of abuse, don’t hesitate to reach out. There is help available.

It is hard to know exactly how common domestic violence is, because people often don't report it. There is no typical victim. It happens among people of all ages. It affects those of all levels of income and education.

Domestic violence and abuse are used for one purpose and the purpose of domestic violence is: To gain and maintain total control over you. Your abuser may also threaten you, hurt you, or hurt those around you.

HOW DO I RECOGNIZE IF SOME ONE SUFFER A DOMESTIC VIOLENCE OR ABUSE?

Domestic abuse often escalates from verbal threats, abuse and physical violence. And the emotional and psychological consequences of domestic abuse are also severe. This emotionally abuse can destroy your self-worth, lead to anxiety and depression, and make you feel helpless and alone. No one should have to endure this kind of pain—and your first step to breaking free is recognizing that your situation is abusive. Once you acknowledge the reality of the abusive situation, then you can get the help you need.

The most common signs of domestic violence in a relationship There are many signs of an abusive relationship. The most telling sign is fear of your partner. Other signs that you may experience in an abusive relationship include a partner who tries to control you, and feelings of self-loathing, helplessness, and desperation.

WHAT VICTIMS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE NEED TO KNOW

1. YOU DON'T DESERVE TO BE ABUSED
2. THE ABUSE OR VIOLENCE IS NOT YOUR FAULT
3. STAYING IN A RELATIONSHIP WON'T STOP THE ABUSE
4. IF YOU STAY, MAKE SURE TO MAKE A PLAN TO KEEP SAFE WHEN THE ABUSE HAPPEN AGAIN, REGULARMENTE IS NOT A SECOND CHANCE
5. FIND HELP WITH A FRIEND OR RELATIVE YOU CAN TRUST AND TELL HIM OR HER ABOUT IT, THEY CAN HELP YOU IF YOU FELL FRAID TO DO IT.

WHAT TO DO IF YOU ARE A VICTIM OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

1. Don't be afraid call 911 and report the incident. Write down the police report/incident number and keep with your records.

2. If you have any injuries seek a medical attention and documented with pictures of your injuries.

3. Keep yourself and your childens in a safe place or shelter.

4. Tell someone you trust about the abuse. They may be your friend, a family member, a neighbor, a co-worker, or staff members of support agencies. Talk to them in a private, safe place. You do not need to face abuse alone.

5. Have a safety plan. If your partner is abusive, have a plan to protect yourself and your children in case you need to leave quickly. If you are abusive, be honest with yourself, think of the consequences, and get help.

6. File for a Protective Order that will tell your abuser to stay away.

When you decide to get help, find a support system that works for you. A trusted friend, family member, or professional can help you devise a safety plan and find a safe place for you to stay, if necessary.

Helpful hints:

When you are asked to appear in court, be on time. Bring all your paperwork. Do not bring your children. Talk directly to the judge, not the respondent. Tell the truth. Be courteous, sincere, and speak clearly. Bring police reports, photos, and affidavits.

You MUST be able to provide a current address for service of the Protective Order on the abuser.

Keep your protective order with you at all times.

Always safe the important telephone numbers on your cell phone and a notebook

DURING AN EMERGENCY, ALWAYS DIAL 911 OR CONTACT YOUR LOCAL POLICE: